Leina's Life (by Tony): Premature accolades

Monday, April 17, 2006

Premature accolades

It has come to my attention that I was a bit premature in declaring victory over Leina's thesis. Alas, this battle has not yet subsided. While I stand factually by each and every word of the previous report, the fact that she had turned in her thesis was not intended to imply that it had been accepted. She's close, though. Today she met with her advisor for two and a half hours and the good news is that Leina only needs to interview two more people and do some more research--two poeple with whom she has already scheduled appointements, I might add.

Leina was really sick last week but she is feeling better. Leina always shares her leftovers with Angie and Angie gratefully accepts and showers her with accolades. But when Angie cooks and offers to share her victuals with Leina, Leina never takes her up on it. Perhaps she doesn't like Angie's cooking, but we know she does because if she didn't, then she definitely would eat Angie's cooking to be nice. And that's unlikely, too; Angie may be a little heavy-handed with the salt but she is an excellent cook. So Angie made chicken soup for Leina the other day, offered some to Leina who was sick, and, of course, was denied.

7 Comments:

Anonymous Anonymous said...

leina's gift/food accepting issue is very cultural. it is polite to refuse atleast a couple of times before accepting anything. angie, next time you'll have to ask leina more than once if you want her to try your chicken soup. japanese are pretty humble. for example, let's say leina is invited to the turner's for another yummy meal and there is a platter of crab. of course, mrs. turner has made more than enough for everyone to enjoy. at the dinner table, leina will start her calculating. the ratio is 5:1 (# of meaty pieces to # of people). she knows she can have atleast one meaty piece without feeling guilty but she'll humbly take an average size crab leg and tell everyone she is full. of course, no one hears her because they are feasting on the crab and mayo. just a reminder, should you be on aunty's elite guest list during the holidays, you will enjoy all the meaty pieces because there are a bunch of japanese folk at that dinner table.

8:35 AM  
Blogger Tony said...

so she'll take one meaty piece when she's entitled to five? Not even two?

11:02 AM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

now i understand why liane gives me the evil eye when i take a couple of meaty pieces for my first helping. she's wants me to hold back like her family. she forgets that i'm from the midwest where the motto is "you snooze, you lose."

12:00 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i have assimilated into the american culture..."the more the better." when someone offers me a cookie, i always take two.

12:17 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

i've taken a peak at aunty's elite mercedes style guest list and so far it's the yamamotos, nakagawas, nakas, fujitas and urashimas. (one member from the sasaki family is invited but he lost his japanese manners a looooooong time ago).

12:24 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

this is all very enlightening to me. recently i attended my first crab feed in south central los angeles. before i went, leina advised me not to eat too much crab. i thought she said this because it was a fundraiser, however liane's post provides additional insight and a cross cultural perspective to the crab feed protocol.

10:39 PM  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

The other stategy is to eat very slowly like guests Mr. J-- -a-a, Mrs. -eik- F-j-m-to, or Leina's beloved late father. They are usually the last to leave the table and keep eating for another hour or more. As you all know I always buy extra so I can send everyone home with crab. My friend Beth gave me another source for fresh crab cheap cheap at the docks in Bolinas during the season.

12:29 AM  

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